HOW DARK MY LOVE

In HOW DARK MY LOVE, Scott Gracheff offers Tribeca 2025 audiences a one-of-a-kind love story between an artist and his photographer/dominatrix wife. Joe Coleman and Whitney Ward are a match made in some weirdly curated heaven of their making. Joe specializes in painting serial killers. The morbid nature of Joe’s larger-than-life paintings is akin to a MAD magazine cartoon from the pits of hell. Joe’s attention to detail is mind-blowing. He uses jeweler’s magnifying lenses to create minute details, from individual hairs and veins on the human figures to the tiny writing that accompanies each personal vignette surrounding the central subject. The paintings are unlike anything I’ve seen before. You would need hours of focus to do each one cognitive justice.

In the film, Joe is working on his penultimate creation: a painting of Whitney. Gracheff tells us a tale of twenty-five years of marriage and the two artists who thrive on each other’s presence. Eccentrics to the bone, they were married by a ventriloquist dummy with guests dressed in elaborate costumes. They have accumulated so many unique and macabre items that they maintain two apartments.

Tyler Hubby‘s editing is a marvel. Joe’s storytelling serves as narration over his creations and home videos. He talks about his heroin addiction, his volatile relationship with his first wife, and his childhood. In conversation with musician Dave Navarro, Joe divulges to the audience his traumatic upbringing. Art is his outlet and rebellion. Whitney was ambushed by a profile in The New Yorker as her professional alter ego, dominatrix Nurse Wolf, in 1998. Her motivation was therapy and not sex. The death of Whitney’s mother, directly followed by an abusive relationship, shaped her art forms. Friend Iggy Pop poses questions to Joe about the motivation and their storied connections. Asia Argento sought him out in her 20s. All these peculiar individuals make one hugely connected chosen family.

During filming, Joe turns 60. Mortality smacks both him and Whitney in the face. After four years, the unveiling of Whitney’s portrait occurs at an exclusive exhibition in Miami. The emotion tied to this one special creation hits differently. A move upstate, a shift in mindset, and the continued worship of one another’s talents deliver exquisite peace. HOW DARK MY LOVE honors the catharsis in art. Joe discusses the struggle in humanity, and it perfectly captures the essence of the film, their lives, and the work. The culmination of a life and love most dream of, HOW DARK MY LOVE celebrates the good, the bad, and the ugly and makes it a masterpiece.

HOW DARK MY LOVE

World Premiere – Viewpoints

| United States | 109 MINUTES | English |

Directed by Scott Gracheff

Produced by Jim Muscarella, Josh Diamond, Jason Diamond, Scott Gracheff, Gregg de Domenico


ABOUT HOW DARK MY LOVE
A tale of painter and muse, at the core of which smolders a timeless love story between artist Joe Coleman and Whitney Ward, husband and wife of 25 years. Known for painting serial killers and outlaws, Joe chooses Whitney to be the subject of his next portrait, and, at nearly 7 feet tall by 4 feet wide, it will be his largest work to date. Teeming with candid biographical details, every aspect of Whitney’s life is vulnerable to exposure, and Joe is taking a leap of faith that Whitney will be able to accept his uncompromising perspective when she is the focus of his gaze. Plunging into darkness in search of the truth, the film intimately explores the relationship between life, love, death, and art.

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